Good and bad
habits are what make up one’s behavior. When you see certain
behaviors in your youngster which cause lethargy, point out the
behaviors to her and offer alternatives. Being matter of fact
about it usually isn’t the best way to approach the problem. A
better way is to highlight the benefits of doing another
activity.
Children who
stay home and watch endless hours of television or play video
games non stop would do more if they knew what was available to
them. As the adult you have to bring the outside world to them.
Below are some
strategies for brining the wonderful opportunities for personal
growth the world has to offer to the lethargic child.
1)
Suggest an activity to
your youngsters. Recommend they join an after school club or
volunteer at a charitable organization. Tell them how well you
think they would do in this activity. Words of encouragement and
praise always work well with children and adults alike.
2)
Make time to do
activities with your children which encourage personal growth.
For example cooking, reading together or playing sports are
examples of this.
3)
Have your child create
a list of things they have always wanted to do. Try to
accommodate at least one item from the list that would encourage
more motivation on your child’s part.
4)
If they won’t partake
in an activity on their own organize the activity for them. For
example enroll you and your child a in a specialized class.
Something out of the ordinary like sailing or swimming is sure
to stir interest.
Most children
who are lethargic feel so because they are unfulfilled. Many
feel directionless. It is up to you the parent/adult to offer
guidance and help fill in the void they feel.
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